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As Tracy R. wrote in her recent column entry, 'should' is more relaxed than 'had better': http://cafetalk.com/column/read/?id=14623&lang=en
In this column, I'd like to add some information about 'had better':
When you hear Americans using 'had better,' you will almost never hear them actually saying 'had better.' Usually, they will shorten this to 'better.'
Example: You better go see a doctor (instead of 'You had better go see a doctor')
When I was a kid growing up in the U.S., I ONLY knew the short form. It wasn't until I was in high school that I learned that this was supposed to be 'had better.' Even now, I only use the short form when I speak English. I think most Americans are the same way. Do most British English speakers do this? I'm not sure.
If you want to hear examples of this (had better → better) in a TV drama, take my TV DRAMA lesson!
Nagi
Jun 16, 2015
Thanks for the comment, Tracy!
Tracy R.
Jun 16, 2015
Very true! I don't even realize when I use the short form or that we (Americans) never use the long form. :) Thanks for the follow up post. I'd like to add a link to your column here to mine as well, since this is a good point students should know.